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Written by Ben Stuart

Narrated by Michael Lenz

8 hours, 26 minutes

Released 9/12/2017

Christian Living/Relationships

Thomas Nelson



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Navigating the Four Critical Seasons of Relationship

The vast majority of young people will still pass through the key phases of singleness, dating, engagement and marriage in their twenties. Yet they are delaying marriage longer than any generation in human history. Why?


For the first time in history, the average age for an American woman having her first child, 26, is younger than the average age of her first marriage, 27. More children than ever are growing up in fatherless homes, despite the overwhelming evidence that in every measurable way this is bad for the child. Though many young people can avoid early pregnancy and STDs, most cannot dodge the depression and feelings of isolation that characterize this modern generation. Studies show a dramatic rise in self-reported loneliness among the young. All of our technological connectivity has not made us feel more connected.


In many ways, the very screens that are meant to link us together have become shields blocking us from the deep intimacy we crave. Many have discovered that where there is a lack of intimacy,addiction often rises to take its place. How can a young person navigate such troubled waters? Is there hope out there?


Like a sailor on turbulent seas, we need to look up and see the North Star: the fixed points in the sky whereby we might navigate the objective realities in life. We need the skill-set to know how to journey through life and how to select the right people to journey alongside. In this book we will chart a course through the four relational phases that the vast majority of human beings on the planet will pass through in their twenties: singleness, dating, engaged and married. In each of these phases, we will look at what eternal purposes should be pursued in each stage, and how to pursue them.







Our desires for intimacy are powerful. This power can be constructive or destructive. Our satisfaction and our safety will be ensured if we can aim these powerful desires toward divine purposes.


Tod Bolsinger (PhD, Fuller Theological Seminary) is the VP for Vocation and Formation and assistant professor of practical theology at FTS. A frequent speaker, consultant and blogger, he serves as an executive coach for corporate, nonprofit, educational and church organizations in transformational leadership. For a combined 27 years he was the senior pastor of San Clemente Presbyterian Church (California) and First Presbyterian Church of Hollywood. Tod and his wife Beth have two children.


Mike Lenz has been a professional voice talent for over 10 years, working with clients on audiobook narration, audio coursebooks, eLearning projects, corporate and web-based videos, and commercials.  When he's not recording for clients, Mike enjoys hosting a local TV talk show and interviewing amazing and inspiring people from all areas of the voice-over industry on the Mike Lenz Voice-Over Podcast on iTunes. 

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